There are really only a few things that truly 'upset' me. Many things that bother me or annoy me, but very few that actually upset me. That said, I do have a few.
It really upsets me when people refuse to get over someone and move on. My sister has me really upset right now cuz her best friend basically just quit on her months and months ago and my sister won't move on with her life! Same with people who make themselves miserable for years over a past boyfriend or crush... It really puts me out because...I like to see people happy and it just seems incredibly dumbass to me to say 'I'm going to be miserable because this other person acted like an asshole'. I mean, is it just me or is it totally not worth it?
That's the thing that upsets me most! Drives me downright crazy.
The other thing that upsets me is people who are bisexual. They bother me way more than homosexuals. I don't know why...maybe because with being bisexual comes the whole attitude of having sex with anything or anybody...and maybe it's just me, but that's weird... So yea. That upsets me too.
And a third thing that upsets me is when people are hypocritical. When they say one thing and do another. Or worse...when they really rip someone out for doing something and then go and do it themselves. Enough to make me scream sometimes! Ag!
The single thing that upsets me most is when people CHOOSE to be miserable...and suicide really upsets me. It's like...COME ON, it's a really big world out there, and there's more tolerance in this world than ever. Just because you're gay and somebody taunts you, don't kill yourself! Doesn't fix a damn thing! All it makes is a lot of other people unhappy.
Is it worth it at all?
Eh, I agree with you in theory, but it's so, so easy to say all that when you've had a fairly smooth background and have never actually experienced those things yourself. It's like an eating disorder, or anxiety, except more so. Anyone can say "Don't". Doesn't mean it's actually possible, without a heck of a lot of love and healing and working through issues.
ReplyDelete...sorry, I'm only commenting when I disagree haha. I am really enjoying these posts! but "Yay I agree!" gets boring after a while :P But, really, you seem so happy lately...and that makes me happy too :)
bahaha the bisexual thing...makes me think of Captain Jack and "omnisexual." I hate him but he makes me laugh anyway :P
I don't mind when people ARE actually miserable...not much anyway. What upsets me is when people CHOOSE to be miserable when they could be happy. :D
ReplyDeleteAnd as a general rule I am very, totally, completely happy these days. :D
I hate Captain Jack too...but I love him at the same time. How can I not love someone who makes me laugh as hard as he can? Deff a love-hate affair. He's waaaay better in Torchwood, tho. Very cool in that show. :D